Magnolia in Motion by Kendra
All About Magnolia by Delphinium
All About Magnolia
By Delphinium
Magnolia loved to go up and down the stairs.
She slided on my lap.
She loved to say her familys names.
She loved to read.
Magnolia loved to put on her familys shoes.
Her first word was dog dog.
Diagram of Magnolia (head, hands, legs, feet)
She had a very loving and generous heart.
She loved her family and showed it by making them happy when they were sad.
Poem for Magnolia by Sasha
Coming to us
on a full moon night
On your
sister’s birthday
Born in our
bed
Surrounded
by love from the first moment
Smiling before your first month ended
Focusing
intently on Delphinium when she engages you
Traveling
all over the city
Snuggled so
tightly against our bodies
Generous smiles and eye-to-eye connections
Charming
everyone you meet
So flexible
and steady
As we take
you from place to place
Kicking with enthusiasm when you’re held
Grinning at
yourself in the mirror
Grabbing
your toes and just holding on for awhile
Laughing
along with your sister
Creating your first jokes
By
presenting objects and then not letting us take them
A great set
up
Laughing
because you get that it’s funny
Ravenously eating
From mushy
foods on forward
Loving
anything that’s offered
Chipmunking
food into your big cheeks
Discovering the stairs
They
entertain you for months
As you climb
and descend
And grin at
anyone nearby
Wonderfully slow days with Mama
Crawling
around your house
Swinging
contentedly at the playground
The world
following your rhythms
You claim the kitchen as a workshop
Moving
magnets around the refrigerator
Climbing up
onto the dishwasher door when given the chance
Further comedy
As you lean
to the side and get everyone around to do it too
Or rock back
and forth manically
Soaking up
the appreciation of your audience
You approach learning to walk
As with so
many developments
Happily and
without frustration
Hurtling
about the house joyfully
You fill our summer at Grandma and Uncle Jim’s house
With handing
people their shoes
Exploring
the outside
Insistently
wearing a bicycle helmet through hours of play
Sister time in your crib
Delphinium
joins you in the mornings
Leaves us
sleeping while she reads and sings to you
Creates a
private space for just you two
Coming into our bed
You climb
all over us and explore clocks and glasses
Pause for a
quick cuddle
Before
getting back to work
Each day winds down with books and songs
We sing you
“Hey Soul Sister” every night of your life
As you lift
your butt in the air and fondle your blanket
Settling in
for a night’s sleep
Learning the power of words
You yell
“Dogdog!” at every passing canine
Learn
“backpack” and “shoes” and “bath”
Use them to guide
your loving adults
Transitioning to new routines
You embrace
your days at day care
Welcoming
Altagracia’s arms in the morning
Turning to
say, “Bye bye!” and blow a kiss on each step as you leave
One block’s walk back home
Can turn
into a 20 minute adventure
Commenting
on every house, car, and light
Giving
orders to sit on stoops as we slowly make our way
Arriving at Granny and Grandpapa’s apartment each time
You grin at
them as you march straight to your toys
Hours of
work to be done with bowls
Little
stones and rubber bands
Sister baths filled with merriment
Lots of
splashing and hijinks
You learn to
soap up your hands
To wash
Delphinium’s back
Energy and ambitious adventurousness
Amazing us
by scaling your high chair independently
Zooming back
and forth repeatedly in our back room
Walking off
the couch onto the pillows below
Reading becomes more interactive
As you show
your preferences clearly
Talking to
us about “Gossie” or “Chicka Chicka Boom Boom”
Repeating
words and turning pages to make connections
Words become phrases
As you
narrate our life for us:
“Mama socks”
“Papa tired?” “Duhdoo sleeping”
“Upstairs!”
“Noyo do it!”
Beginning to follow your sister’s creative lead
So decisive
with your marks on paper
Gleefully
creating your first painting
Narrating it
all
Dress up suits you perfectly
Hats and
shoes to parade around in
An armored
breast plate across your chest
Grinning
through outfit after outfit
Developing such independence
You want to
spend your time brushing your teeth
Moving
chairs around to suit your purposes
Making the
world work for you
You led your whole life
So joyfully
and so fully
Embracing
everything it had to offer
Welcoming us
all to join you for the ride
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter Lily to SUDC at 20 months of age in 2012. Your video is a beautiful tribute to Magnolia's life! Wishing you peace and strength in the knowledge that your angel is with you always. Hugs <3
ReplyDeleteYour wonderful tribute to Magnolia will keep her alive in thoughts and prayers and books forever! I teach in the Bronx and noticed that you are the only Little Free Library in the borough. I hope to raise enough funds to place another in our great borough!
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